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The gifts for the friend who always hosts.

Every group has one person whose house is where everyone ends up. Six gifts for them, for the bar, the buffet and the table, that will be out at the next party.

By the Bonwits editors
Updated September 27, 2026
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The gifts for the friend who always hosts

The short list.

6 picks. Tap any to check today’s price.

  1. The honest entry point, about $30
    Le Creuset Set Of 6 Vancouver Pinch Bowls 2 Oz White

    No. 01Le Creuset

    Le Creuset Set Of 6 Vancouver Pinch Bowls 2 Oz White

    $30 on Amazon today

  2. For the table
    Kosta Boda Snowball Votive

    No. 02Kosta Boda

    Kosta Boda Snowball Votive

    $35 on Amazon today

  3. For the bar
    Crafthouse by Fortessa Professional Metal Barware/Bar Tools by Charles Joly, 11" Two-Piece Footed Polished Stainless Steel Boston Cocktail Shaker
  4. The one to buyOur pick
    Nambé Yin Yang Divided Server, Acacia Wood & Nambé Alloy Snack & Serving Dish, 12" x 6" x 2"
  5. For the drinks
    nambe Scoop Ice Bucket | Insulated Ice Bucket with Lid and Ice Scoop
  6. If money is no object
    Juliska Puro 7" Hurricane

    No. 06Juliska

    Juliska Puro 7" Hurricane

    $150 on Amazon today

Before you buy

Read this first.

Picks
6
Price range
$30 to $150
Updated
September 27, 2026

The friend who always hosts is hard to buy for in one particular way: they own the basics. The plates, glasses, corkscrew and cheese board are all long since in the cupboard. What they tend to lack are the second-tier things, the pieces a host does not buy for themselves because the party works without them.

That is where a gift earns its place. Small bowls for salt and olives. A proper shaker for the drinks. A serving piece that makes the snacks look planned. An ice bucket that does not sweat onto the sideboard. A little candlelight that is not a scented jar. None of it is essential, and all of it gets used every time the door opens.

The six here run from about $30 to about $150 and cover the bar, the buffet and the table. Each is from a house with a clear specialty, from French stoneware to Swedish crystal to the Santa Fe metalworks of Nambé.

What we judged on.

4 tests, applied to every pick below

  1. 01

    Out at every party

    Pieces a host reaches for every time, not once a year.

  2. 02

    Not already owned

    We skipped the basics most hosts have, such as cheese knives, corkscrews and wine glasses, which have their own guides.

  3. 03

    Good-looking on the table

    Each piece is handsome enough to stay out while guests are there.

  4. 04

    $30 to $150

    A range that suits a birthday, a thank-you for years of dinners or a group gift.

No. 01The honest entry point, about $30

Le Creuset

Le Creuset Set Of 6 Vancouver Pinch Bowls 2 Oz White

Six tiny stoneware bowls for flaky salt, olives, nuts and sauces, in constant use at any good party.

Le Creuset Set Of 6 Vancouver Pinch Bowls 2 Oz White
Price
About $30 for six (Amazon today: $29.95)
Keeps for
Decades; high-fired stoneware resists chips and crazing
Set
Six bowls, 2 oz each
Material
High-fired glazed stoneware
Temperature
Minus 9 to 500 degrees F (maker's figure)
Care
Freezer, oven, microwave, broiler and dishwasher safe

A host is always short of small bowls. These hold 2 ounces each, which is right for flaky salt at each end of the table, a spoonful of mustard with the charcuterie, lemon wedges at the bar or the olive pits nobody knows where to put.

They are Le Creuset's high-fired stoneware with a glaze that resists chips, stains and flavors. Le Creuset rates them from minus 9 to 500 degrees Fahrenheit and safe in the freezer, oven, microwave and dishwasher, so they also work as prep bowls in the kitchen on the nights nobody is coming.

White goes with everything. Skip them for a host whose kitchen is already full of Le Creuset in a single color, and buy them in that color instead.

The catch. They are small enough to disappear into the back of a cupboard, so they need a home near the table.

No. 02For the table

Kosta Boda

Kosta Boda Snowball Votive

A heavy lump of clear crystal that turns one tealight into a small block of ice-light on the table.

Kosta Boda Snowball Votive
Price
About $35 (Amazon today: $35.00)
Made in
Designed in Sweden; origin not stated on the listing
Keeps for
Decades; heavy crystal with nothing to wear
Size
About 3.7 in across, 3.2 in tall
Material
Heavyweight lead-free crystal
Holds
One tealight
Designer
Ann Wärff, 1973

Ann Wärff designed the Snowball for Kosta Boda in 1973, and it has stayed in production since. It is a heavy, lead-free crystal votive about 3.7 inches across, with folds and bumps in the glass that throw the light of a single tealight in every direction.

One on a side table is a small, pretty thing. Three or four down the middle of a dinner table give far more light than their size suggests, without the height that blocks guests' view of each other. Unscented tealights are the right fuel, since a scent competes with the food.

It is a single votive, so a proper gift is two or three. Skip it for a host whose style is spare and modern; the Snowball is frankly decorative.

The catch. Wax collects in the folds of the glass; freezing it for an hour makes old wax pop out.

No. 03For the bar

Crafthouse by Fortessa

Crafthouse by Fortessa Professional Metal Barware/Bar Tools by Charles Joly, 11" Two-Piece Footed Polished Stainless Steel Boston Cocktail Shaker

A heavy two-piece shaker, designed by a champion bartender, that seals tight and looks good left on the bar.

Crafthouse by Fortessa Professional Metal Barware/Bar Tools by Charles Joly, 11" Two-Piece Footed Polished Stainless Steel Boston Cocktail Shaker
Price
About $40 (Amazon today: $40.00)
Keeps for
Decades; heavy stainless steel with no parts to fail
Type
Two-piece Boston shaker
Size
11 x 3.5 in
Material
Heavy-gauge polished stainless steel
Measures
2, 4 and 6 oz marks
Care
Dishwasher safe

The Boston shaker, two tins that fit one inside the other, is what bartenders use because it is fast, does not jam and makes enough for two drinks at once. This one is from Crafthouse, the barware line Fortessa makes with Charles Joly, a world champion bartender. It is heavy-gauge polished stainless steel with a footed base that gives the hand somewhere to hold.

There are measure marks at 2, 4 and 6 ounces inside, it seals tightly without spilling, and it goes in the dishwasher. For a host who makes a round of drinks when people arrive, it is the tool that turns that into a small performance.

A Boston shaker needs a separate strainer. Anyone who makes only the occasional drink might prefer a three-piece cobbler shaker with the strainer built in.

The catch. No strainer included, and new tins take a firm tap to separate until the owner learns the knack.

No. 04The one to buy

Nambé

Nambé Yin Yang Divided Server, Acacia Wood & Nambé Alloy Snack & Serving Dish, 12" x 6" x 2"

Two curved dishes, one polished alloy and one acacia wood, that fit together for nuts and olives or dip and crackers.

Nambé Yin Yang Divided Server, Acacia Wood & Nambé Alloy Snack & Serving Dish, 12" x 6" x 2"
Price
About $117 (Amazon today: $116.90)
Keeps for
Decades with hand washing
Size
12 x 6 x 2 in
Materials
Nambé alloy and acacia wood
Sections
Two, separable
Care
Hand wash and dry; never in the dishwasher
Designer
Keeley Traae

Nambé began in 1951 near Santa Fe, New Mexico, and is best known for its own alloy of eight metals, which looks like silver but does not tarnish. This server, designed by Keeley Traae, pairs a curved dish of that alloy with a matching one in acacia wood, fitted together in a yin yang shape 12 inches long.

The two halves solve a real problem: something wet and something dry, side by side, without the crackers going soft. Olives and almonds, hummus and pita chips, a dip and crudités. Nambé says its alloy holds temperature well and can be chilled first to keep a cold dish cool.

Both halves must be washed by hand. Nambé warns that the alloy is damaged by the dishwasher and should not hold wet or acidic food for more than about three hours.

The catch. Acidic foods can mark the alloy; Nambé suggests a light film of vegetable oil before use.

No. 05For the drinks

Nambé

nambe Scoop Ice Bucket | Insulated Ice Bucket with Lid and Ice Scoop

A sculptural steel ice bucket whose scoop sits in a notch in the acacia lid, so it is always there.

nambe Scoop Ice Bucket | Insulated Ice Bucket with Lid and Ice Scoop
Price
About $123 (Amazon today: $122.50)
Keeps for
Years; stainless steel with a wood lid to oil now and then
Size
9 in across, 5.7 in high
Materials
Stainless steel, acacia wood lid
Includes
Lid and 8 in scoop
Designer
Wei Young

Most ice buckets are either plain steel pails or party tubs. Wei Young's Scoop for Nambé is a low, wide stainless steel bowl, 9 inches across and 5.7 inches high, with a solid acacia wood lid and a matching scoop that is part of the design rather than an afterthought.

The wide mouth makes it easy to fill a glass quickly, and the lid keeps the ice from melting as fast on a long evening. It is the kind of object a host leaves out on the bar cart between parties, which is the best sign of a good gift.

Skip it for someone who serves wine more than cocktails; a wine bucket suits them better.

The catch. The wooden lid should be hand washed and oiled occasionally so it does not dry out and crack.

No. 06If money is no object

Juliska

Juliska Puro 7" Hurricane

A mouth-blown glass hurricane with a dappled texture that makes a pillar candle glitter across the table.

Juliska Puro 7" Hurricane
Price
About $150 (Amazon today: $150.00)
Made in
Thailand
Keeps for
Decades, barring a fall
Size
9 in tall, 5.5 in across
Material
Mouth-blown lead-free glass, signed
Holds
A pillar candle
Care
Dishwasher, warm gentle cycle
Origin
Thailand

Juliska's Puro glass has a hammered, rippled surface that catches light and scatters it. The 7 inch hurricane is 9 inches tall and 5.5 inches across, mouth-blown by hand and individually signed, and it takes a pillar candle, which it shields from drafts on a terrace or near an open door.

A pair on a long table, or one on a sideboard beside the bar, does more for an evening than any amount of overhead lighting. Juliska says each piece varies slightly in bubbles, color and size, which is the mark of handmade glass.

It is not a vase for hot contents or the freezer. Juliska says it can go in the dishwasher on a warm, gentle cycle, but a candle-smoked hurricane cleans easily enough by hand.

The catch. The highest-priced gift here for a single candle holder, and a pair is the better gift.

Matching the gift to the host

For the cocktail host, the shaker and the ice bucket. For the grazing-table host, the Nambé server and the pinch bowls. For the dinner-party host, the votives and the hurricane. When in doubt, candlelight is the gift that suits every table.

Care, in one line each

Stoneware and the shaker go in the dishwasher. The Juliska hurricane can too, on a gentle cycle. Nambé alloy and wood, never. Crystal votives by hand, and freeze them to lift old wax.

What to skip

Anything with a slogan about wine. Novelty barware. Scented candles for the dinner table. Serving sets so large they need their own cupboard.

Questions.

What do you give someone who loves to entertain?

Something they reach for every time guests come but would not buy for themselves: small serving bowls, a good cocktail shaker, a handsome ice bucket or candle holders for the table.

Is Nambé dishwasher safe?

No. Nambé says its alloy must be washed by hand with mild soap and dried at once, and never left in standing water.

What is a Boston shaker?

Two tins, one larger than the other, that seal together for shaking. It is the professional standard because it is fast and does not jam, but it needs a separate strainer.

What is a good gift for a host under $50?

Le Creuset's set of six pinch bowls, a Kosta Boda Snowball votive or two, or the Crafthouse Boston shaker.

How do I get wax out of a glass votive?

Put it in the freezer for an hour or so. The wax shrinks and usually pops out whole.

Sources.

  1. Le Creuset
  2. Kosta Boda
  3. Crafthouse by Fortessa
  4. Nambé, care and use
  5. Nambé
  6. Juliska, Puro collection

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